About

I have had so many days when I needed someone to tell me what to do next.   There was no one.  I had no family members close by and my friends didn’t have children. You’re thinking, why did she adopt a child on her own?   At the time my lupus was in remission, my condition was stable and I really wanted to have children.  So I made the big leap to submit my application. Little did I know that the universe would bring me this amazing little bundle of joy that grabbed my heart and held on tight. 

I have had many ups and downs but we have made it to each birthday unscathed (to a point).  I have learned a lot about myself, my son, and what’s available to us when we need help.  I hope to share that with you if you choose to read on. 

In the next few pages I have given my perspective on key areas, I think we all struggle with.  I’ve also provided links to reference material from scientific and professional sources. 

The areas of focus are:
– Tantrums
– Saying No
– Chores
– Communication
– Bullying
And more as I grow and learn as a mother, a professional, woman of colour, and a woman in progress. 

Please note that I am not a healthcare professional.  I am a working mother who has been able to rise above adversity and raise a well-rounded tween.  I am sure we will face other struggles as he develops into an adult and I feel ready to face them head-on with him.   Check out my blog for some of our funny and sometimes heartbreaking stories.